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A
few distinctions to help you understand
what coaching is... and what it
is not.
Coaching
vs Therapy
Coaching
is not therapy. Coaches don't
work with clients on "issues",
healing pain or trauma, or spend
much time pondering the intricacies
of human behavior. That knowledge
may come as clients move towards
the life they really want, but it
is not the focus of the coaching
relationship. Coaching is about
empowerment. It's about taking action
to achieve the things a client values,
needs and wants.
You
might say therapy is about healing/fixing/getting
over the past, while coaching
focuses on creating a perfect present
and designing an extraordinary future.
Coaches are not particularly concerned
with how/why you got to be who you
were... they are far more interested
in who you are, who you
want to be, and how you're
going to get there. While therapists
are interested in knowing "why?"...
coaches want to know "how?"
And
finally, therapy generally operates
from a paradigm of pathology,
while coaching embraces a paradigm
of possibility. In other
words, therapy is about moving from
dysfunctional to functional; coaching
is about moving from functional
to ... exceptional.
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